3 Career Blunders to Avoid

August 4th, 2009

3252692735_45cbd1a3d6In this down economy these thoughts might strike a cord with you. But beware, these basic blunders may damage your career. Do you find yourself saying:

1- “I hope something will come along soon.”   HOPING FOR FATE that a job will happen rarely brings employment.  If you fall into this line of thinking you may mistakenly believe you can wait it out and something good will come to you. Do not allow your career to run on fate. You need a goal and a plan with tons of active networking focused on your target objective. Every now and then we get lucky, but don’t ever count on it. 

2 - “I’ll take anything, even if it’s not what I like.”   ANY JOB WILL DO may help pay the bills but it is only a short term fix. Do not use this as a strategy for career success. It often leads to frequent job-hopping and limited career growth. When you dislike your work it will probably show in your performance and right now, only those who excel receive promotions and pay increases. 

3- “I have to stay in this job even though I hate it.”   STAGNATING in a job should be unacceptable. Yes, work is hard to find but opportunities will become available. The ideal time to prepare for a better job /career is when you are unhappy or unemployed. Take time while you are working to come up with a new and satisfying direction. The worst damage you can do to your career is accepting  misery. Happiness at work IS a choice – choose to make it happen!


       

Strategies to Advance Your Career

July 8th, 2009

For a long time I’ve been fascinated with go-getter types who always seem to thrive. After working with hundreds of business owners, managers and employees in all different industries, I’ve seen three traits that consistently move careers. These success traits work so well I’ve adopted them in my own career. If you don’t already use them, think about adding these strategies:

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· Respond immediately – within minutes or a few hours to new contacts, recruiters or anyone related to your career. I find the busiest people make time to respond quickly at least for a brief reply and then set a conveninet time to talk. This is the best way to make a great first impression. Those who wait – even an extra day often lose opportunities – that’s a fact.

· Always find a way around obstacles Perservance matters more than almost anything. When you hit a wall – and we all do – determination will help you find a way around road blocks. Go-getters aren’t shy about talking it through with people, asking questions and suggesting alternative solutions, and researching new ideas until they weave around the obstacle. There’s always a way to work it out. Think creatively and you will come up with a solution, just don’t quit.

· Surround yourself with energetic, optimistic people who live life fully. We all know people like this and we also know people who dwell on the negative side of life. We have control over which people we spend time with. Keep some distance from pesimists –even if they are close friends or collegaues — they’ll remind you of all the reasons you can’t do something. Stay close to energetic, optimists who will push you in the right direction and provide enthusiasm and strength to get ahead. 

       

A Secret Weapon for Staying Resilient

June 26th, 2009

2728679996_923e9dd8962In this job market are you resilient — able to bounce back no matter what your career throws at you? Resiliency is critical to a happy, successful career. I understand resiliency is difficult when you’re losing a job or your company is closing after many years and you have to figure out a new direction. So how can you stay resilient? Well  part of it is optimism and another big piece is connecting with people. 

I find one of my secret weapons for staying resilient is reaching out to positive people. When you begin to feel your energy draining and your thoughts turning negative, seek out successful, energetic people.  Write down on a piece of paper the name of those who you would like to talk to. Email and set up a time for coffee or a phone call. This can even be with a colleague you don’t know well — the main thing is selecting individuals who can help re-charge your enthusiasm. Talk about your career, bounce around some new ideas. Renew your energy. When I’m feeling like I’m about to reach a dead end, I make a list of people who can help. After talking with them it’s amazing how it restores my ability to feel resilient — to feel like I can conquer tough challenges again.  Make a proactive choice to connect with others and stay resilient!

       

Career Change Advice

June 23rd, 2009

It’s happened to many of us – the worry of choosing a career – an episode of panic, sick-to-my-stomach feeling that can overtake us when it’s time to change careers. So here’s where we come in. We are specialists in helping people find their career identity. That means finding a career that fits “you,” where you feel comfortable, natural and able to use your strengths. 

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To get started, the first step is to uncover your strengths and interests. Begin by getting clear about activities that give you energy. Pay attention to your feelings while you are doing activities that trigger your passion. Make a list in the next week to identify very specific activities you do when you feel excited, for example when you: brainstorm with a colleague about how to overcome a technical problem or contact customers to introduce a new product. Then look for patterns—did you prefer working with data, people, things or ideas. Think about strengths you are using during these activities you would like to use more in your work. Next, ask a friend or family member: “in your opinion, what type of problems or situations would I be good at helping people solve?” Finally from these exercises, after you have gathered ideas and information take a close look, dig deeper and list major strengths, interests and activities that absolutely must be included in your new career identity.

       


Dr. Sunny Lurie photos by Perkoski