Can Social Media Work Wonders on Your Career?

July 10th, 2010

The answer is, Yes!  I’ve seen social networking increase a person’s community from 100 to thousands of contacts with minimal time and effort.  Building a network of quality contacts can lead the way to professionals inside organizations you want to be involved in. People who want to pursue a new industry can use LinkedIn “groups” for a jump start to find people to connect with who work in a particular industry.

Whether you’re working on an ambitious goal, seeking a new direction or starting a business—you can build new relationships faster and easier than collecting hundreds of business cards. If you want to begin soon, we are running a social media strategy session on July 22, 2010.  Join us and get great tips. Don’t sit online alone and spin your wheels, let experts help you build your social network. It will enhance your career!

-Sunny K. Lurie, PhD., Fast Focus Careers

       

Social Skills Improve Interviews

June 20th, 2010

If you’re wondering what you can to do improve interviews, think about how you handle your social skills and body language. Are you likable — that’s extremely important.  A firm handshake of course, but are you aware if your body language is confident?

Body language reveals so much about you –it’s actually 55% of your communication. It has an impact that is more important than your words. And they will notice “the way” you say things. So if you are not smiling or your eyes do not look enthusiastic and happy, it won’t matter what you say. Show passion in the tone of your voice and with excitement when describing your accomplishments.  Nervous habits such as pen clicking or constant foot tapping will also reduce your ability to appear confident.

Do not underestimate the impact of good social skills on your career. Seriously. In fact, across the board, in all types of fields and companies, people would rather work with someone who is likeable and incompetent than with someone who is skilled and obnoxious.

To be likeable you must come across as sincere and authentic by always presenting “the real you.” Also, don’t use jargony words, like, “multi-tasker.”  Be specific. Instead of saying, “I’m a self-starter” and just leave it at that. You could say, “I was given a project without a lot of instruction and in the first 3 days I came up with a list of 10 people to seek advise from. I  met with them all in the first week and received a number of great ideas – I am a self-starter.”

Another suggestion to show confidence is to offer your help on a trial basis. You might say, “I know I have the best skills for the job and I’m so confident I would take on a  project for free.”

Depending on whether we like someone or not influences hiring decisions. So build rapport and make a strong connection through your body language.  People who lack social competence end up looking like they lack other competencies, too.  Don’t forget to keep smiling as you describe who you are.

- Sunny Lurie, PhD., Fast Focus Careers

       

7 Radical Steps to Make a Change

May 6th, 2010

I’m always on the look out for novel and effective career tips. Nick Corcodilos, author of How Do I Change Careers? offers some good ideas to consider. He says, “career changers typically don’t have a network of industry friends, they don’t have a resume stuffed with industry-specific accomplishments, and they often face the dismal prospect of having to jog down a few notches in the corporate hierarchy to make up for lack of experience.”

If those hurdles aren’t enough, they’re often going about the process in all the wrong ways, says Corcodilos. “They’re all victims of brainwashing about what it means to look for a job,” he says. “The current wisdom says to crank up your network, polish your resume and get it out there. It’s all oriented to having you get your documents out there, in the hope that somebody will figure out what to do with you.”

That’s all wrong, Corcodilos says. Instead, job seekers should practice reverse psychology. Enough about you! What about the person at the company who needs to fill the job?

“The notion of building your personal brand is pure bunk,” he says. It’s a narcissistic view of how you get ahead. It’s about feeling the employer’s pain. If you want to pull off a career change, you need to give hiring managers a specific business plan as to why they should allow you into the organization.”

Here is Nick’s radical plan for a job search.

Step 1: Give yourself the freedom to explore. Forget that you’re looking for a job. First, you have to figure out where you want to go. We’re talking “blue sky” here. So head to the library, an old school but shockingly useful treasure trove of helpful information. Forget the Internet. Too focused, too virtual. Right now, you need to roam the periodicals section, allowing yourself the luxury of following wherever your interest takes you. After you’re done reading In Touch and Rolling Stone, sidle on over to the trade publications and start nosing around. Gather up a few publications that interest you, and see if you can find any patterns. Jot down notes on stories that generate a spark. Start drilling down into specific companies, taking notes on their business prospects, their revenue, their problems, their successes. And start taking names. The people mentioned in stories about a company are typically their movers and shakers. You’ll need them for Step 2.

Step 2: Armed with information about four or five–no more!–companies where you think you would enjoy working, pick up the phone or ferret out an email to get in touch with the people on your list. Don’t ask for an informational interview! They’ll drop you like a hot potato! Instead, come up with some thought-provoking question that might inspire the person on the other end of your missive to engage. Ask them what they’re reading these days that influences their work, ask about an industry issue. The point is to establish a connection, get a little more information, and see if this industry is actually one that would be a good fit.

Step 3: Simultaneously, you should be figuring out how to meet more people in the industry you’ve targeted. What are the events, training programs, blogs, online communities, and organizations that attract these folks? If you can connect with some of them via friends, all the better. Just remember: The key is to talk shop with them not belabor them with your career aspirations. Ask for advice and insight–not job leads.

Step 4: If, after all this researching and chatting, you’re still keen on the new industry, you need to figure out how your current skills map to a future employer’s needs. Figure out the work function you’re most interested in and the skills it requires. What are you missing? Do you need more education or training? Is that a deal breaker? You may have to trade income and status for a chance to learn the ropes.

Step 5: If you’re now as up-to-speed as you’re ever likely to be, it’s time to get serious. With a grasp of the problems and challenges your prospective employer is facing, you’re now ready to draft a business plan for the job you want. This doesn’t have to be too detailed. You’re not expected to know the nitty gritty of the company’s balance sheet. The goal is to demonstrate you’ve been thinking about THAT COMPANY’s specific problems, and what you could do to help them.

Step 6: Using the contacts you’ve developed, try to find a manager who might hear you out. This is NOT about answering a posted job listing. This is about all those jobs that never get posted–or don’t even exist until you’ve shown that they should create a job just for you.

Step 7: Now, for the tricky part. Let’s say you’ve impressed the hiring manager with your creativity and charm but you still don’t have the background the other folks on his or her team have. Time to negotiate! Point out your relevant skills and suggest that if you meet a certain number of milestones toward new skills in a certain amount of time, you can revisit the compensation question. Changing careers often incurs costs, but you should treat it as an investment.

The market is admittedly tough, Corcodilos concedes, but “good companies are still looking for good people who can help them make a profit.” Why shouldn’t it be you?

- Linda Tischler, Fast Company

       

In a Recession Should I Try for a Better Career?

March 23rd, 2010

Should I Find a Better Job?

Should I Find a Better Job?

A common question we’ve been getting is, “Should I try for a better job during the recession?” The answer is, yes you should! There are thousands of people who are unhappy in their jobs and afraid to leave. If you are losing sleep over the decision to stick it out or plan for a new career, we can tell you from experience-look for a career better suited for you. Why? You can have several positive results when your job is satisfying. Often you achieve greater success, higher job performance, better health and even happier relationships when your work is the right fit.

Continue to work in the old job to pay your bills and start taking small steps during lunch, at night and weekends to do research into other career fields and network with contacts. When you have investigated and networked enough to launch your new career, you’ll know it’s time to leave for something better. Here are three tasks to get you started...

One, determine a specific career you are interested in seeking.

Two, write an action plan with a list of contacts to meet and places to investigate — such as professional associations or educational needs. Be sure to include a due date next to each task and writing it helps to improve chances of doing it.

Three, identify a support person who is very upbeat and motivating and ask for permission to talk regularly during the process. In summary, yes you can find something better if you are focused with a plan and a support person to help you achieve your goal.

- Sunny K. Lurie, PhD., Fast Focus Careers


       

Find Meaningful Work During Economic Hard Times

March 16th, 2010

Nearly everyone is feeling the economic downturn. As many people are losing their jobs often they are being forced to change careers.  For job changers, a growing trend during the recession is to look at going after your longstanding interests.

What a better time to see who you really are and find work that is meaningful. Switching to a new profession can be exhilarating and traumatic. Letting go of a former identity and stepping back to find a new direction is an opportunity to play to your strengths.

When you search for work that is aligned with your strengths and interests, you are looking for something meaningful– which will help increase your energy and passion. And passion can be very helpful during a job search and an interview. Hiring a candidate with genuine enthusiasm for the job often produces higher productivity, customer service and quality work.

How do you determine your strengths, interests and the right job fit?

It will take some time making lists. First, you need to think through what you are good at, list work you have done where you have had success and then list what you enjoy doing. Next, investigate new industries different from what you have done in the past. Doing research to explore industries and job options is enlightening and will open your eyes to new possibilities.

Last, create a match between your strengths, interests and a field that looks appealing. Once you have figured out what you like and a potential career path, you should work on locating contacts in that field and build a detailed career plan with actions, people to contact and dates to reach your each goal. Stay on target, use your support people and try to remain positive.

- Sunny K. Lurie, PhD.

       

Coaches Help Move Careers

March 1st, 2010

We have fitness coaches and sports coaches, why not a “career” coach? So follow me here:  If research repeatedly shows 50% of employees are unhappy at work and 70% of U.S. workers are not engaged in their work, then wouldn’t it make sense to talk to someone who specializes in helping people explore career options, identify their strengths and move into a satisfying career?

Logical, right? Career experts can get your career moving in new directions.

Consider using a career expert to help guide your career through one of these moves:
#1 Move within same organization with expanded responsibilities
#2 Move within same organization with different responsibilities
#3 Move within same industry in to a different organization
#4 Move using same skills in to a different industry

Practical career advice can help you plan out which move is best for you. The goal is to get into a meaningful career that you find satisfying– and career coaches can get you there.

- Sunny K. Lurie, PhD.

       

Does Passion Matter at Work?

February 3rd, 2010

2701362086_a6b22d48c5This question caught my attention in U.S. News, “Does passion really matter at work?” What do you think? Well, it’s probably no surprise that the answer is, yes, it absolutely matters!  It is not just fluff.  Here are 3 reasons why passion is one of the best investments you can make in your career:

It helps you feel more confident. For too many people, work is about getting up in the morning and trying to be someone they’re not. Not only does that drain their energy, it also keeps them off balance. Think of someone standing on one leg with the other leg up in the air and their arms waving, trying to keep their balance. They’re deathly afraid that someone is going to come up and bump into them, because they’re already in danger of falling over. Trying to be who you’re not in your career is a little like that. You have to put extra effort into doing what doesn’t come naturally. Maintaining the façade keeps you off balance.

It’s an energy source. When you’re on fire about what you do, it energizes you, and you can put that energy back into your work. Instead of the energy drain your work actually becomes an energy gain. So not only are you getting energy from what you’re doing, you also aren’t having to dig into your energy reserves just to get through the day. When you’re aligned with what energizes you, it’s like having both feet solidly planted on the floor. The energy differential is huge in helping you feel confident about your work.

It feeds your persistence. The odds are good that, whatever your career path you are  going to run into roadblocks and bumps along the way. When you’re doing something in pursuit of what energizes and inspires you, those roadblocks and bumps are a lot easier to take. Don’t get me wrong. They never become enjoyable, but their size relative to your objective is smaller.

I have suffered bumps and bruises in pursuit of something I didn’t really care about (my past career) while I’m in pursuit of something I am over the moon about (my current career), I have to tell you, the difference is night and day. In the path I love, persistence, confidence and energy come naturally as a daily part of the job.

- U.S. News article by: Curt Rosengren, career author

       

How to Show Passion in an Interview

January 22nd, 2010

3362733777_3a4542630bHow can you show passion during your interview? In our workshops we talk about how personal stories help “prove” your passion. It might sound ordinary if you were to say, “I was passionate about creating a team environment in my last organization.”  But communicating a story about a time you put your sweat and tears and overcame a specific challenge is a more authentic and interesting way to describe your important impact. With a specific story, a hiring manager might feel more confident that you would repeat a similar experience in their organization.  Everyone has a story. Never say: “I just did my job; I didn’t do anything special.”

Your work history is unique to you. Try to focus on how you did your job effectively and what you have done differently than your colleagues. The specifics of the story are more important than the general information. In interviews, most people think they should talk about their skills in general terms, but it is the specific examples and facts behind those stories that prove your success. Interviewers are more likely to remember snippets of your personal story.  Your descriptive story helps to develop rapport and prove the things you have achieved in your past positions.

       

3 Ways to Get Your Ideal Career

January 12th, 2010

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Why can some people get to their ideal career and others can’t? In many cases the successful people have
incorporated the following practices into their career game plan.

1) Stay focused on organizations you admire and jobs you really want. If the company or its product are appealing, you will be more likely to push to get it.   Keep your eye on your top 10 companies and favorite 5 jobs. Stay focused on what you really want. Work hard to learn about people who work in the organization or who have a job to which you aspire. Once you find the people you can set up a brief meeting, shadow the person or try to begin with a temp, volunteer or seasonal position at the company. Don’t get lost in the details of looking at “any” company or job. Stay on target working to get inside and meet people who are in your top organizations and jobs.

2) Find comfort in change. That promotion, new assignment or job change looks attractive but the change will take you out of your comfort zone. You will lose the safety and security of knowing your routine. You have to let go of the unconscious fear that you are not totally prepared to handle the new responsibilities or have the skills to succeed in the job. Conquer this by getting excited about your new identity and creating a vision of yourself as successful in the new job. Reflect on the success you’ve had in your previous work. Recognize that you have the ability to learn the skills to meet the new challenges. Those who are able to seek out change will increase their chances of advancement.

3) Associate with supportive, ‘up-beat’ people. Stay around people who will spur you on and applaud your progress. Positive friends and colleagues who offer encouragement can really help keep you buoyed up if you’re struggling to stay motivated during a job search or business start up.  Reduce contact with negative people in your life who bring you down by droning on about the rough economy, lack of opportunities and how you don’t stand a chance of finding employment. Pessimists can truly be harmful if you want to move forward. Instead think about the realistic optimists you know and actively work toward spending time with them. Optimism is contagious!

- Sunny K. Lurie, PhD.

       

If You Believe It, You Can Achieve It

December 14th, 2009

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For the New Year, the writer Jen Grisanti reminds us to find our passion and pursue it– a subject near and dear to my heart.

Jen says, for every writing career that I have helped launch, the writer had a clear vision of his/her own success.  In the New Year, what do you want to achieve the most? Do you have clarity in your goals? Can you let go of the past and pursue your goals with renewed passion?

Debbie Robins a career author writes, “to help achieve your goal consider writing  a Living Vision…Start by having a clear picture in your head of the biggest, boldest, most fulfilling life that you can imagine living. Now, write about who you are and what you’re doing in glorious detail. Do not describe how you got there. You are there!”

I remember doing a similar exercise with a Career Strategist coach. The beauty of the exercise lies in the relief you feel after imagining that you have achieved your greatest goal. During the coach’s session, she had us write down three of our immediate goals. My goals were 1) Creating a successful seminar career 2) Writing a book proposal and 3) Successfully hosting my first Writers Retreat in Hawaii. Since I didn’t have a lot of contacts in Hawaii, I knew the retreat would likely be the most challenging of my goals. However, by doing the exercise, I was able to visualize myself achieving all three goals. After several months of hard work and daily revisualization, I completed all three of my goals. My biggest break with the Hawaii retreat came when the local newspaper agreed to do a story on my event. You can do anything you set your mind to doing if you have clarity of goal and visualize your success.

So, how do you create a clear vision? In The Answer, John and Murray write, “Creating a clear vision is the first step to your success.”

They created what they refer to as the Five Musts:

  1. You must find something that stirs your soul.
  2. You must make a study of it and investigate new developments in it.
  3. You must recondition your mind to believe that you can have it and achieve it.
  4. You must understand how to make money at it.
  5. You must take daily action.

For the New Year, I encourage everyone to create a clear vision, pursue it with a renewed passion, no matter what losses have happened along the way, and make that vision a reality. You CAN do it. We each have the potential to create the destiny we choose.  – Jen Grisanti

       


Dr. Sunny Lurie photos by Perkoski