Should I Stay or Go With My Passion?

February 7th, 2012

Happy New Year! One great tradition of each new year is that many people usually take the time to reflect on what happened in the past year and ponder ways to improve in the future. There are lists of “bests” and “worsts” and advisory lists of things that one should or should not do.

I recently read a delightful series of “Life Reports“ published by New York Times columnist David Brooks. In these reports, Brooks asked people over the age of 70 to reflect on their lives — what made them successful, happy, sad, regretful, hopeful, etc. Not only were the reports fascinating to read, but they also got me thinking about the decisions I have made in the past year and the changes that I have made in my life.

After college, I joined Teach For America as a high school math and special education teacher. I cared – and still care – deeply about education inequity; however, I realized early on that teaching full-time was not for me. At all. In fact, I realized that everything I had planned for myself (grad school, academia, policy advisement) was not for me. I wanted to sing! Act! Write!

What was I to do? Was I being selfish? Was I being irresponsible? I think not. Six months later, I am not only still pursuing my career, but I am also working for two different arts education organizations in New York City. With one, I, along with other company members, use theater as a means for educating youth about HIV/AIDS, sex education, bullying, and a host of other issues. In another job, I run an after-school singing club that uses leadership skills as the basis for its curriculum. And yes: I still audition, perform, and write my own music all around the city!

All this is not just to say that life is great or easy; rather, it is to convey the idea that you can follow your passion and deal with issues you care about. Care about medicine but really would rather sing than be a doctor? Want to end world hunger but really want to do ceramics? Want to be an advocate for kids but creative writing interests you much more than a JD? Well, you don’t have to go down that unwanted path. Here are my three nonscientific R’s that I have found to be extremely helpful:

REFLECT:

It’s important to take time and think about what we really want. In our fast-paced society, most of us are always in a rush and rarely take the time to reflect on what we are doing. Are you doing things because you love them? Because other people think you should do them? Because of prestige? For financial security? There are no right or wrong answers to these questions — what is most important is that you are able to answer these questions honestly to yourself. At that point you can actually begin to assess what is most important to you and whether or not you are truly striving toward the things you value most. For some, that will be financial security. For others, it will be happiness. And for many, it will probably be a mix of both. But once you truly reflect on what it is you actually would love to do, then you can start trying to center your life around that goal.

RISK:

So, you know what you want to do, but there are a few problems in the way: college loans, kids at home, parents need financial help, your pedigree might fall. These are all issues that worry many of us; however, we can never go after what we really want if we spend our entire lives putting our passions on the backburner. Also, most of us don’t have to deal with all of these issues at one time, but the older we get, the more responsibilities we will have. Why not be bold while we’re still young and don’t have as many financial burdens that come with building families?

REWARD:

Reward yourself. No, I don’t mean go on shopping sprees and vacations that you cannot afford. I’m suggesting that you look at what you love – whether it is music, writing, sports, or medicine – and make it a part of your life. If you like music but are not in a position to go fully into the music industry, make sure you treat yourself to a concert or two. If you love writing but can’t leave your consulting job, make sure that you give yourself an hour or two on the weekends to fulfill that passion. You work hard. Maybe you cannot make the big jump to a new career, but you still deserve to incorporate your passions into your life.

These have been helpful to me, and I hope that they can be somewhat useful to you. Happy living.

By: Lumumba Seegars

Added to Fast Focus Careers Blog by Sunny Lurie

       

Top 5 LinkedIn Mistakes

November 4th, 2011

The Top 5 LinkedIn Mistakes People Make

LinkedIn can be a very powerful tool in developing and enhancing your career or helping you build your business. There are, however, common LinkedIn mistakes that even the most competent professionals make – and then they wonder why LinkedIn isn’t working for them.

Here are common LinkedIn mistakes you need to watch out for.

1) Not using keywords properly

This is perhaps the most prominent LinkedIn mistake people make when crafting their profiles. They focus so much on polishing their profile’s looks that they totally forget to to put keywords in their profile headline and summary.

If you do not enrich your LinkedIn profile with keywords, you will never appear on the site’s list of results when a prospective client or employer types in their needs. For example, if you are a marketing consultant, then the phrase “marketing consultant” needs to be placed in your headline and profile summary in order for people searching for that phrase to find you on LinkedIn.

2) Joining groups but not participating

Another very common type of LinkedIn mistake is to join a myriad of professional groups but never taking the time to join in the discussions.

Groups are one of the most powerful tools available in the LinkedIn networks. They allow professionals to share their ideas and opinions about things, and users are empowered to display their professional competence in these discussions. Join a group and take the time to share your own professional thoughts on the topics at hand.

3) Trying to sell yourself on group discussions

LinkedIn is NOT the place to explicitly advertise your products and services, although you can do so in a subtle and unobtrusive manner.

People bluntly promoting their wares are not welcome in LinkedIn. Advice and professional feedback are the topics of discussion, and these are your primary tools for marketing your products and services. Help out potential employers or give some advice to prospective clients and you are already marketing yourself.

4) Emailing people you don’t know

Some of the more common LinkedIn mistakes involve emailing people out of the blue. This can quickly get you kicked off LinkedIn if people report “I don’t know this person.”

Emails are closely guarded on LinkedIn, and are meant to be used by close contacts and professional associates. If you want to contact someone you don’t know on LinkedIn look for connections on the network who might be able to introduce you.

5) Not using a custom URL

LinkedIn allows its users to create a customized URL in place of the default URL, and this feature is often ignored by newer users.

Not taking advantage of this tool greatly reduces the chances of prospective clients and employers finding your account. You can change your URL where it says “Public Profile/edit.” Use your name, if it is available, as this will greatly increase your profile’s uniqueness and visibility in the network.

By Carol White

       

3 Career Blunders to Avoid

August 6th, 2011

3252692735_45cbd1a3d6In this down economy these thoughts might strike a cord with you. But beware, these basic blunders may damage your career. Do you find yourself saying:

1- “I hope something will come along soon.” HOPING FOR FATE that a job will happen rarely brings employment.  If you fall into this line of thinking you may mistakenly believe you can wait it out and something good will come to you. Do not allow your career to run on fate. You need a goal and a plan with tons of active networking focused on your target objective. Every now and then we get lucky, but don’t ever count on it.

2 - “I’ll take anything, even if it’s not what I like.” ANY JOB WILL DO may help pay the bills but it is only a short term fix. Do not use this as a strategy for career success. It often leads to frequent job-hopping and limited career growth. When you dislike your work it will probably show in your performance and right now, only those who excel receive promotions and pay increases.

3- “I have to stay in this job even though I hate it.” STAGNATING in a job should be unacceptable. Yes, work is hard to find but opportunities will become available. The ideal time to prepare for a better job /career is when you are unhappy or unemployed. Take time while you are working to come up with a new and satisfying direction. The worst damage you can do to your career is accepting  misery. Happiness at work IS a choice – choose to make it happen!


       

Consider Being an Adult Intern

July 30th, 2011

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Ever think about how to try out a new career? Why do only students get to work in internships? I encourage professionals at any age to seek an internship. Such as a short term project with a moderate salary to help a business or organization achieve a goal they’ve been wanting to complete. Offer your assistance and you get to test drive a new field -it’s great, everyone wins. So why don’t we hear about these opportunities more often? Probably because professionals typically don’t ask for a chance to do it.

I suggest if you are looking for a new career, identify a few organizations where you’d like to work and propose to take on a project for 30-60 days for a moderate fee. You would need clear objectives and outcomes and do the best job possible. After you finish the project, promote your accomplishments in your resume to market yourself in the field.  People with the enthusiasm and creativity take on a temporary internship to gain experience, would certainly be impressive and stand out from the crowd.  So let’s go companies and professionals – look for ways to get adult internships going – it’s good for everyone! If you want help starting this conversation, please contact us.

- Sunny Lurie, PhD., Fast Focus Careers

       

Thinking About a New Career

February 22nd, 2011

2178788631_4554876975-1A low risk way to test a new career is try it on the side. Many people want to experiment before leaving their full time job. Even if you are busy, “side launching” is a viable and effective way to begin your new career or business. These ideas can help you get going:

1. Be disciplined and consistent about the hours you choose to work on your idea. Is it from 5 to 7am before your family life or other commitments begin — or are late evening hours better? Are you carving out time on the weekends? Be honest and clear with yourself about where to find pockets  of time and make it a part of your routine; your road to success will be faster.

2. Decide whether and when to tell friends, colleagues and your boss. You may be surprised by their enthusiasm and support. When I knew I was leaving Key Bank to begin my own company, I told my manager several months ahead and they were supportive.

3. Determine benchmarks for yourself that indicate when you would consider making your side work a full time venture. What would you be willing to sacrifice for a time if it meant being able to devote more energy to your new career? Be realistic but also be willing to go for it!  Thanks to Ladies Who Launch for these ideas.

-Sunny K. Lurie, Ph.D.

       

Face Down Your Fear of Change

August 2nd, 2010

The Face of Change

This is a topic many of us are dealing with today. Whether your organization is going through change or you have to change jobs, scary feelings of uncertainty are often triggered. People in the midst of change frequently take a wait-and-see approach that stops progress. There’s no doubt fear and uncertainty are linked with change but you CAN control how you “react” to change. View this time as an opportunity, an opening into a future you can help design. This period is a chance to redefine what you want to be. Focus on the outcome you would like.

If changing your career has become a necessity it’s time for soul searching. This may be the push you need to pursue your passion. Think bigger than your immediate box to stretch yourself beyond your current circumstances. When you do that, you’re 99 percent guaranteed to run up against fear at some point. It just comes with the territory.

Most people will do about anything possible to keep from feeling that fear. It’s one of the biggest obstacles keeping people from taking serious steps towards their dreams. And that’s unfortunate because, that fear can actually be an enormously valuable asset. Fear can be seen as a catalyst to help venture out from a cozy comfort zone.

Fear comes in two varieties: limiting fear and productive fear. Limiting fear stops you dead in your tracks. Productive fear shines a light on potential dangers so you can assess how to minimize or eliminate them. And sometimes the only difference between the two has to do with what you do when you feel that fear.

The fear might be there for a very good reason. For example, let’s say you want to make a career change, but you’re afraid you will not succeed and run out of money. That fear could either be a limiting fear, keeping you from taking any action, or a productive fear, helping you understand more about how to move toward your goal.

Ask yourself two questions to help harness the positive potential of your fear:

What warning does this fear have for me and are they valid? “If I do this, then X could happen.” Be aware whether or not the warnings are valid. For example, the warnings might be, “If you pursue this path and you fail, you’ll suffer a massive setback to your career.” The warning about the massive career setback might actually be greatly exaggerated. I always think like this: If someone took a couple years off to travel around the world, how adversely would that affect their career? Typically not much, especially in the big picture.

What could I do to eliminate or minimize each of the risk factors? For example, rather than flipping the switch and making a change immediately, you might delay for a year and focus on building your network and skills. Take whatever small steps you can towards the new direction while you are still earning money. Also, set aside more money than you might need to start and be realistic about how much time it will actually take.

The more you can examine the fears and put valid fears to use, the more they can be used as a force to move you towards your vision. Don’t let fear and uncertainty break your spirit. You have more power than you know – use it.

- Curt Rosengren
- Sunny Lurie, PhD, article contributor,
Fast Focus Careers

       

Can Social Media Work Wonders on Your Career?

July 10th, 2010

The answer is, Yes!  I’ve seen social networking increase a person’s community from 100 to thousands of contacts with minimal time and effort.  Building a network of quality contacts can lead the way to professionals inside organizations you want to be involved in. People who want to pursue a new industry can use LinkedIn “groups” for a jump start to find people to connect with who work in a particular industry.

Whether you’re working on an ambitious goal, seeking a new direction or starting a business—you can build new relationships faster and easier than collecting hundreds of business cards. If you want to begin soon, we are running a social media strategy session on July 22, 2010.  Join us and get great tips. Don’t sit online alone and spin your wheels, let experts help you build your social network. It will enhance your career!

-Sunny K. Lurie, PhD., Fast Focus Careers

       

Social Skills Improve Interviews

June 20th, 2010

If you’re wondering what you can to do improve interviews, think about how you handle your social skills and body language. Are you likable — that’s extremely important.  A firm handshake of course, but are you aware if your body language is confident?

Body language reveals so much about you –it’s actually 55% of your communication. It has an impact that is more important than your words. And they will notice “the way” you say things. So if you are not smiling or your eyes do not look enthusiastic and happy, it won’t matter what you say. Show passion in the tone of your voice and with excitement when describing your accomplishments.  Nervous habits such as pen clicking or constant foot tapping will also reduce your ability to appear confident.

Do not underestimate the impact of good social skills on your career. Seriously. In fact, across the board, in all types of fields and companies, people would rather work with someone who is likeable and incompetent than with someone who is skilled and obnoxious.

To be likeable you must come across as sincere and authentic by always presenting “the real you.” Also, don’t use jargony words, like, “multi-tasker.”  Be specific. Instead of saying, “I’m a self-starter” and just leave it at that. You could say, “I was given a project without a lot of instruction and in the first 3 days I came up with a list of 10 people to seek advise from. I  met with them all in the first week and received a number of great ideas – I am a self-starter.”

Another suggestion to show confidence is to offer your help on a trial basis. You might say, “I know I have the best skills for the job and I’m so confident I would take on a  project for free.”

Depending on whether we like someone or not influences hiring decisions. So build rapport and make a strong connection through your body language.  People who lack social competence end up looking like they lack other competencies, too.  Don’t forget to keep smiling as you describe who you are.

- Sunny Lurie, PhD., Fast Focus Careers

       

7 Radical Steps to Make a Change

May 6th, 2010

I’m always on the look out for novel and effective career tips. Nick Corcodilos, author of How Do I Change Careers? offers some good ideas to consider. He says, “career changers typically don’t have a network of industry friends, they don’t have a resume stuffed with industry-specific accomplishments, and they often face the dismal prospect of having to jog down a few notches in the corporate hierarchy to make up for lack of experience.”

If those hurdles aren’t enough, they’re often going about the process in all the wrong ways, says Corcodilos. “They’re all victims of brainwashing about what it means to look for a job,” he says. “The current wisdom says to crank up your network, polish your resume and get it out there. It’s all oriented to having you get your documents out there, in the hope that somebody will figure out what to do with you.”

That’s all wrong, Corcodilos says. Instead, job seekers should practice reverse psychology. Enough about you! What about the person at the company who needs to fill the job?

“The notion of building your personal brand is pure bunk,” he says. It’s a narcissistic view of how you get ahead. It’s about feeling the employer’s pain. If you want to pull off a career change, you need to give hiring managers a specific business plan as to why they should allow you into the organization.”

Here is Nick’s radical plan for a job search.

Step 1: Give yourself the freedom to explore. Forget that you’re looking for a job. First, you have to figure out where you want to go. We’re talking “blue sky” here. So head to the library, an old school but shockingly useful treasure trove of helpful information. Forget the Internet. Too focused, too virtual. Right now, you need to roam the periodicals section, allowing yourself the luxury of following wherever your interest takes you. After you’re done reading In Touch and Rolling Stone, sidle on over to the trade publications and start nosing around. Gather up a few publications that interest you, and see if you can find any patterns. Jot down notes on stories that generate a spark. Start drilling down into specific companies, taking notes on their business prospects, their revenue, their problems, their successes. And start taking names. The people mentioned in stories about a company are typically their movers and shakers. You’ll need them for Step 2.

Step 2: Armed with information about four or five–no more!–companies where you think you would enjoy working, pick up the phone or ferret out an email to get in touch with the people on your list. Don’t ask for an informational interview! They’ll drop you like a hot potato! Instead, come up with some thought-provoking question that might inspire the person on the other end of your missive to engage. Ask them what they’re reading these days that influences their work, ask about an industry issue. The point is to establish a connection, get a little more information, and see if this industry is actually one that would be a good fit.

Step 3: Simultaneously, you should be figuring out how to meet more people in the industry you’ve targeted. What are the events, training programs, blogs, online communities, and organizations that attract these folks? If you can connect with some of them via friends, all the better. Just remember: The key is to talk shop with them not belabor them with your career aspirations. Ask for advice and insight–not job leads.

Step 4: If, after all this researching and chatting, you’re still keen on the new industry, you need to figure out how your current skills map to a future employer’s needs. Figure out the work function you’re most interested in and the skills it requires. What are you missing? Do you need more education or training? Is that a deal breaker? You may have to trade income and status for a chance to learn the ropes.

Step 5: If you’re now as up-to-speed as you’re ever likely to be, it’s time to get serious. With a grasp of the problems and challenges your prospective employer is facing, you’re now ready to draft a business plan for the job you want. This doesn’t have to be too detailed. You’re not expected to know the nitty gritty of the company’s balance sheet. The goal is to demonstrate you’ve been thinking about THAT COMPANY’s specific problems, and what you could do to help them.

Step 6: Using the contacts you’ve developed, try to find a manager who might hear you out. This is NOT about answering a posted job listing. This is about all those jobs that never get posted–or don’t even exist until you’ve shown that they should create a job just for you.

Step 7: Now, for the tricky part. Let’s say you’ve impressed the hiring manager with your creativity and charm but you still don’t have the background the other folks on his or her team have. Time to negotiate! Point out your relevant skills and suggest that if you meet a certain number of milestones toward new skills in a certain amount of time, you can revisit the compensation question. Changing careers often incurs costs, but you should treat it as an investment.

The market is admittedly tough, Corcodilos concedes, but “good companies are still looking for good people who can help them make a profit.” Why shouldn’t it be you?

- Linda Tischler, Fast Company

       

Think Ahead One Year or More

February 11th, 2010

2982652357_7200a27f6bThose who get ahead often plan steps in advance. It takes years to be an over night success. Don’t let bad economic news hold you back from thinking forward. When hiring begins to grow you need to be ready. Do you know where you want to be in 1, 2 or 5 years?  When someone asked Oprah what was next five years ago she said she wanted to have her own network; insiders knew she would have it. Each of us is no different when it comes to elevating our career — planning pays off.

At companies the same thing happens; employees are rewarded for planning ahead. Most employees, low-level managers to top vice presidents, are taken by surprise when promotion opportunities arise. The people who actually get the best jobs have been planning their strategy for one year or more. The same rules apply to changing career fields. Don’t wait until you are ready to quit. Launch your new career on the side. Remain employed and take active steps months before leaving. Upward mobility requires looking ahead to make things happen.

       


Dr. Sunny Lurie photos by Perkoski